You CANNOT hustle God!

What if I told you that no matter how hard you work, you may not get the exact results you are aiming for. Or rather no matter how much time and effort you put into figuring out a situation, you still will not have enough wisdom to find the right answer on your own. We continue to find […]

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Refocus Your Lens

HITS will come!!! You’ve overcome one season and here comes the next test… You just got over the breakup, and then you realize being alone isn’t as easy as you thought it would be… You decided to make things work in your marriage, but you are struggling to love your spouse… You applied and got […]

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WHAT MORE IS LEFT?

If I decide wrong this can change the trajectory of my life completely…. How can I open my mouth to say, “Man life is freaking hard”, without people thinking I am complaining? How did I become this person I barely recognize, stuck between a rock and a hard place? I mean am I settling by staying […]

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Hungry? … grab what exactly?

I love the Snickers commercial because it is a pretty accurate depiction of how people act when they are hungry. Person gets hungry and acts out of control. People around the person warns them about their attitude when they get hungry. Then the person transforms into an aggressive person (because they are hungry and angry at the […]

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What’s Wrong With Her?

I’ve heard, “You can’t walk in someone else’s shoes unless you are that person.” Meaning I have no way of knowing their issues and battles unless I am them. Recently I was pretty disappointed in myself because I judged a woman on a decision she made for herself. It had nothing to do with me and not […]

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You Waited

    I am probably the most undeserving person to be loved by God. Even though I made the commitment to live for God and had my water baptism a few years ago (pictured above), I know I’m not perfect.  Can I be completely honest? As much as I want to help everyone I have selfish and ugly […]

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What happens when it’s you?

      As I desperately arrive to my 10th day in my 30 days challenge I have no desire to quit. I have experienced rough days and times but never to this degree over 10 days. Have you ever experienced a day where everything went wrong? A day when you felt like you could […]

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Travel Diaries – CUBA EDITION

As Hurricane Irma slides through Atlanta, my lights are out but I’m thankful to God for shelter and the necessities. With limited amount of battery I decided what better way to end my night then to reminisce and write about “MY EXPERIENCE” of the beautiful island of Cuba. *** Before I comment any further about […]

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Who Defines Your Worth?

“You are an incredible person BUT…” “You are such a wonderful girlfriend BUT…” “You are definitely the complete package BUT…” …BUT ….BUT ….BUT WHAT?!?! Am I so different that I can’t be like other women who are able to maintain a long term relationship with a guy BECAUSE I’m such a “GREAT PERSON”! {Disclaimer: I […]

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